The underlying insecurity gives rise to much cruelty. The result of this combination of insecurity and strong attachments is an unparalleled nastiness.
Little can rival the viciousness and social desperation of eleven-to fourteen-year-old girls.
A clique can serve its purpose only by being a clique, by excluding others, by putting them down.
To an appalling degree girls' day-to-da feeling of self-wroth is directly tied to a sense of their own popularity. One wants to be accepted and one also wants that acceptance to be as high on the social ladder as possible.
- Establishing the Boundaries
- Keeping the Rules in Place
- Obeying the spirit of the Law
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